Bring home the bacon AND fry it up.
This isn't about women wanting the man's money. We make our own now, and sometimes more than the man. It's about knowing the man has work ethics and ambition. Its also about having the support in the home. If we're both working full time jobs (btw being a stay at home mom is a full time job, just without leaving the office), we both are responsible for making the house run smoothly. A man that willingly and equally shares in the chores, cooking, and kid rearing would be nice blessing.